Ardh-Narishwar/ Shiva and Sakthi as one, like the sun and moon within all of us.


Tantra the Way of Life, talk given by The Father of ParaTan and Master of the Living Goddess Tradition and founder of the first Mahavidya Temple in Tamil Nadu, South India,
Shri Param Eswaran

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Tantra the Way of Life.
Preparing for Divine Union

Divine Union of Sakthi and Shiva

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We must come to an understanding of how important our roles are in maintaining universe in harmony. The current global predicament is due to the fact that so many of us have lost our divinity as men and women and have been reduced to mere males and females. To reclaim our divinity we must understand the true definition of power and how to perform our divine roles with grace and love. Then we must realize how very far away we are from embodying our divine qualities. In order to change the state of the world, solar system, galaxy, and the great expanse of the Universe, we must first change within. Once we have made the inward journey to unlearn and reprogram our tendencies and habits we may then prepare for our eventual partner. Then once we find our highly compatible soul mate who shares our commitment to nurturing the next generation in a way that stimulates soul growth we begin preparations for union.

Truly, the beginning of our lives is the time when we must prepare for union, and union is much more than one night of sex. Ideally the first night of marriage is the first night the couple engages in intercourse and they continue to do so until a child is conceived. I can imagine my own reaction upon hearing these words only a few years ago, before I met Shri Param and encountered the powerful and soul empowering Teachings of ParaTan. Together they revealed the role of woman and man in creating a harmonious universe.

We are proud to bring to you the Bija Mantras of the Goddesses that we use during ParaTan Sound Healing sessions on the right side of this page. When listening to this Audio-video, please use good headphones to enjoy the maximum healing benefit of the sounds. This is only a recording, when you receive a sound healing personally, it is much, much, more powerful.

These Teachings are only suitable for those committed souls who truly desire to be in tune with the Universe and are willing to serve the Universe as a part of the whole. Although I have spent years searching within various spiritual groups, women’s circles, holistic health, and environmental organizations and educational institutions the array of spiritual teachings available were taught and translated through the lens of the very monster we must escape, the world of materialism. Regardless of how sincere and well intentioned the individuals I’ve encountered are, they still perpetuate the teachings of the monster beast. This beast wants automated zombies manufactured to work for poverty level wages and keep the machine of the beast going. Without understanding the important role men and women have in creating harmony and nurturing the next generation there is only the perpetuation of the beast.

The purpose of this article is not to convince anyone that they should or should not do anything. I write these words now at the request of my beloved Teacher, Shri Param Eswaran so that the select few individuals, who are truly committed to serving the universe selflessly and willing to work hard, will have a framework to use in their sincere efforts. For those who are truly willing to change, dedicate their mind, body, and spirit into service of the universe and do whatever it takes to raise the next generation in an environment and with education that is loving, nurturing, fully supportive, stimulates and provides the freedom to explore their soul’s purpose. These Teachings are for you, your partner, and your future children.

Finding a compatible partner is the most challenging obstacle each of us must overcome. We must do away with the mentality that makes a “shopping list” of desirable qualities in a partner, then goes shopping, or worse, puts out an advertisement. Preparing for our soul mate means first finding our own soul and developing our own divine qualities. As we put away selfish tendencies conditioned into our being from birth, and take up the selfless service of the universe we step into the role of true men and women.

Most of us raised in the belly of the beast (the western world) have accumulated traumatic and detrimental emotional memories stored in cell receptors sites within our organs. Clearing these emotional memories is the first step towards preparing for one’s soul mate. With the age old traditions of meditation and purification rituals this process alone may take decades of hard work. ParaTan-Sound-Healing accelerates this process so that if one is dedicated, vigilant, committed, and steadfast it may only take two years. Fortunately for men, this is easier for you than it is for women. Unfortunately, for this entire process to work, it is the women who must absolutely change, clear old emotional memories and step into our divine roles as true women, Living Goddesses. This is a journey for divine beings to take together. The gender of our soul’s present vehicle is a tool for creating more quality vehicles for divine souls, so divine consciousness may know itself in dynamic form. We are divine beings, our soul’s journey through many lifetimes and within many different vehicles is our unique contribution to the story of creation.

As we rehearse our roles as divine beings for the stage production which is our soul’s journey, whether our roles/vehicles are male or female, we must always consider that the two divine polarities of Shiva and Shakti are never separate. This is the secret to being men and women, not merely male and female. Once we have cleared the emotional memories from our past, we are capable of finding balance between our inner goddess and inner god, symbolized by the hermaphroditic deity Ardh-Narishwara, who is simultaneously Adthi-Para-Shakti and Para Brahman, Parvati/Shakti & Shiva, and the Lunar & Solar energies within each of us. The dance between these two energies is the cosmic dance and when we align with them we align with the flow of the universe.

The present generation of children being born are highly intelligent, evolved and sensitive souls. In order for them to grow into the divine beings they are meant to be, their parents must clear themselves in order to provide the environment needed to grow and thrive. Our parents and their parents’, were not able to provide for the needs of our souls to grow, when we were children. Several generations of this madness has us in the present global predicament in which we now find ourselves, and for the future of our children, it must not go any further. This statement is not meant to be ammunition for finding fault, placing blame, or causing guilt, rather it’s an act of placing the cards on the table, a ‘fessing up of the facts so we may recognize our position and make a game plan to move onwards, find balance and create harmony. Previous generations did not have the tools we have today.

ParaTan is a gift from the Universal from the Divine Mother Herself, meant to be used as a tool to create harmony. Whether it is understood or not, humans are microcosmic embodiments of the powers of the universe, and when we are out of balance, we create disturbances on our planet, in our solar system, galaxy, and the Universe. It is no wonder that the Mother of Creation has stepped in at this time in our evolutionary journey with the gift of ParaTan to help each of us find our soul’s purpose and place in the Universal plan which is coming to a culmination within the next twenty years.

The souls incarnating at this time will not be able to step into their roles as divine beings if their parents do not give them what they need to grow and express their souls’. They must have two committed parents who are highly compatible with each other and working together as selfless servants of the Universe to bring forth divine children. These parents must work very hard, long before they are in the birthing room, when the woman is in labor. These parents must work very hard even before they meet each other. When they do meet each other and develop a friendship and eventually decide that they will work together as Goddess and God, Priestess and Priest, they must prepare for their divine union.

When I say “work hard” this means actively improving our thoughts to align with love, which is the nature of our divine role as men and women. It is not difficult to design a house around a child and follow their lead in exploration rather than direct their every movement. My divine niece Yogeswari was nurtured by her father with the ParaTan Lovemaking Ritual when she was in the womb. Those of us blessed to be at IFC Mahavidya while she is growing and exploring the world have been trained by Shri Param to allow her the freedom to explore whatever her soul desires, with our only duty to ensure her safety. Rather than being a difficult job it’s actually quite fun. It only takes a minute adjustment and expansion of our consciousness to step into the role of divine parent.

The Alchemy of Lovemaking Rituals of ParaTan help couples prepare for divine union by clearing any residual emotional memory. This is not sex, which should be reserved for the first night of marriage, which must be a date chosen carefully according to the Vedic science and art of astrology to determine when the planetary energies are complementary and supportive for the couple’s energy. Twenty-one days before marriage the couple must meditate together on the divine being they want to bring into the world. This meditation is the ParaTan Alchemy of Lovemaking Ritual, which includes loving touch and sound, but not sexual intercourse. This ritual is beneficial for both the man and woman and lovingly creates a sacred space for the soul of their child to begin communication/relating with them on a subtle level. It is a divine preparation to be the Mother Goddess and Father God of the next generation.

The first night of divine union should be their first night of marriage and they should continue to practice this sacred union until a child is conceived. This may be expected to work only for those who already have functioning reproductive organs. Age does not matter.

The moment of conception in today’s world is all too often the place where males and females separate. This understanding must change to involve both the Mother and Father. From the day the Mother conceives, the Father begins his role too. He must continue to nurture the Mother Goddess and their child with daily massage and sound practice. This doesn’t have to be a two hour professional massage. Even if it is twenty minutes a day it must be done. During this practice, the Father must lay his hands gently, and tenderly on the womb of the Divine Goddess to transmit his loving energy to the fetus of the incarnating soul. While his hands are on the Divine Vessel he must resonate mantras into the Goddesses navel, which in turn enters the navel of the growing vehicle of the divine soul. The umbilical cord is like an antenna with which the soul connects to the outer world.

The sound received by the child programs her/his cells to be clear from emotional memories and tendencies which in today’s world are passed from the parents to the child, making their soul’s journey very difficult at best. The sounds transmitted within the daily Lovemaking Ritual must be short, approximately three beats long, with each bija (seed syllable) sounded three times. Then, in addition to this consistent daily practice, once a month the Divine Father/Priest/God must sound around the lips of the Yoni to prepare the opening for the eventual birth.

ParaTan is the Sound of the Universe, and the sound of the universe is love. With this in mind the divine parents must chose a music selection to play day and night especially for the soul of their divine child. Music travels through all the nadis and will give the child a head start in life because they will be born with all of their divine channels in tact and open, ready to grow, expand and evolve.

When the time of birth does arrive it is ideally a lotus birth in the home of the Divine Parents. The house must be prepared before the child is born. From the moment of marriage the parents have given up their self centered desires and selflessly have offered themselves into the service of the universal unfolding of divinity. With this in mind, the house is no longer designed for the parents but as an exploration ground for the curious and developing child. Each time we say “NO” to a child we are programming them with information that contradicts their soul growth. The parent’s only job is to make sure the child or children get all of their needs met with love and that they do not hurt themselves or others. Parents are only the most recent guardians of the incarnating soul, who has had hundreds if not hundreds of thousands of parents in previous incarnations. The idea that parents own, possess, and control their children and live out their dreams through them is sick and must be put away. The parent’s job is to create an environment that stimulates soul growth and supports the soul living their dream.

Educating the child must be done according to the child’s needs. Ideally the parents belong to a community where the school is formed to suit the children, not the other way around which is the case with most schools today. If this is not possible, home-schooling is best. Each soul has different needs, which is why their birth chart must be known to the educators, who should research their needs as determined by their Vedic Astrology.

In the time of ancient India, Vedic Astrology was what determined whether an incarnating soul had the nature of a Brahmin, Warrior, or Laborer. The caste system was determined by the birth chart, not the social status of the parents. Divine parents must make use of this information to ensure that their children receive an education suited to their unique needs and soul growth.

The child, the world, our solar system and the entire universe will be better served when we each make the decision to put aside our selfishness and serve the benefit of the whole. To serve the whole means making the commitment to release past emotional memories and conditioning, doing what it takes to find balance within, and stepping into the role of a divine parent, considering the needs of the next generation even before they meet their divine partner. When two divine beings find their highly compatible soul mates in each other they must work together to prepare for their union, which is meant to result in the creation of a new life for a soul and a new world for us all.

Om Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavanthu
Om Shanti Shanti Shanti

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