Love and Intimacy
Finding your one and only Soul Mate is hard enough and staying true to each other is another challenge altogether. So how does one do to feel true to oneself and one's relationship?
We have to be true to ourselves, thus being truthful to our partner. In the west there is this believe that one has to make sure that the relationship is rock solid. This is a grave mistake; one can only make one's commitment to the relationship being rock solid.
The secret is to have as many shared experiences as possible, not just when you go out on a holiday, but from the minute you wakes up. Start the morning by sharing moment of waking up, enjoying the dream stage one's partner is enjoying, without disturbing the partners experience of dream-time.
Then comes shower time, this is the ideal time to share the moment of togetherness. Giving and receiving oiling sessions, massage and scrubbing time that will help you maintain a healthy skin and life. The experience will last through the day till you connect again in the evening that is if you have a busy life style.
These days in the west, we're seeing younger men wanting committed relationships, while many women of the same age want to play the field. Young women are putting their career and their lives before commitment. Women are entering a very interesting phase, they've gained a lot from liberation and it's really starting to kick in. Now, in their life they are also becoming unhealthy, with more emotional problems. It is not within the nature of women to be so, thus creating more emotional pain for themselves.
Being 100 percent truthful is a sure-fire way of affair-proof your relationship or marriage. Make a pledge to be honest" Says Dr Rosie King, sex therapist.
I hope that Dr Rosie King does not totally believe the statement, for there is no 100 per cent truthfulness to a relationship, as truthfulness has to be to oneself, thus being committed in all one's undertaking, including one's relationship.
When you enter a relationship, you consciously commit to a partnership, where by you commit to be complementary to each other. Men must learn to worship their partner, as Goddess and woman must see the man as God. Once you are ready to see each other in this light, the relationship becomes stronger each and very moment. Each moment of our life has to be special and always growing.
Tantra teaching shows us ways in which we can fail in our relationship.
Women must always marry a man at least 10 years older then oneself, for women mature faster, this does not help if the man is the same age, or close to the same age.
Always seek the advice of a good astrologer before committing into a relationship, for sometime one can be attracted to the wrong person. Each one of us has a unique set of people with whom we are compatible, and astrology can show us how to do so.
Do not expect a relationship to solve your problems. If you thing that a relationship fix your problems, no you're burying yourself in deeper problems. Most often relationship is meeting an unmet need, and this can be very addictive, thus the cycle of partner does not stop, and the problems keep mounting. In today worlds it is difficult to find a person who have had less then 5 relationship before he or she is 25.
Let also look at the navel of today's men and women, they seem to pull in one direction or the other. In all of this women are the worst effected, even though there are the stronger of the two sexes. Due to women's role in society they have been given very powerful tool, and is their emotional nature. It can be used to enhance oneself or at the same token be very destructive gift.Let us come together and explore way of being in-tune with the Universal Plan, thus enjoying a life filled with Joy, Bliss and harmony.
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